From the Streets of the 'Steel City' to Special Forces to Microsoft: Why Your Excuses Are Holding You Back.

My Mother Was Stabbed 32 Times: From the "SteelCity" to Microsoft Executive

"I watched my mom get kidnapped while watching TheCosby Show."

Andrew Nathan’s childhood in Newcastle, Australia, readslike a movie script—but it was his reality. Born to 19-year-old parents, Andrew grew up in the shadow of drug raids, biker gangs, and a traumatic event at age eight that would change his life forever.

In this episode, Andrew reveals how he channeled that earlytrauma and anger into a high-performance career, first as a semi-pro basketball player, then as a Special Forces signaler in Afghanistan, and eventually as a cybersecurity lead at Microsoft.

You will learn:

• The "Reason vs. Excuse" Framework: How Andrew uses his past to drive performance rather than wallow in trauma.
• The Microsoft "Cowboy" Mentality: Why he broke the rules to deliver $500M in results by focusing on the customer’s "why".
• Cybersecurity for Families: Why the internet is forever and how to protect your kids in the age of AI.

"If you're telling an AI model your deepest, darkestsecrets, you have to assume at some point that model is going to be compromised."

Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Intro: Growing up in the "Steel City"

05:06 – The Day Everything Changed: The 32 Stabs & The Cosby Show

13:19 – Stability & Survival: Living with Grandparents

19:33 – Reasons vs. Excuses: The Mindset of a Survivor

21:06 – Channeling Anger into Semi-Pro Basketball

26:04 – When to Quit: Getting Dunked on by a 17-Year-Old

39:32 – Joining the Military: Signals & Special Forces

49:09 – Command & Control: Life in Afghanistan

53:10 – "No Comms, No Bombs": Lessons in Military Tech

1:09:42 – Transitioning to Microsoft: The "Cowboy" Years

1:12:46 – Finding the "Security Geek" Within

1:23:22 – NPS & Customer Obsession: Teaching Customers to Fish

1:53:07 – "The Security Kid": Keeping Your Children Safe Online

2:03:04 – AI & Privacy: Why the Internet is Forever

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